Monday, December 29, 2008
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Saturday, November 8, 2008
oh my god...
... ...
everybody start their blog with 'i know something has happened,but i dunno wat is tat...'
i think i need to start with this too...
i not sure wat had happened but i think i can guess it,juz hope tat wat i guess is wrong,totally wrong,no such thing at all...But,i think is not...she already decided...
Juz respect her choice...BUT...i really cant imagine wat wil happened after this...
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
学会忘记
《学会忘记》
一天晚上,我去看望一位遭人诬陷的朋友,吃饭时,朋友接了个电话,我听出来是有人要告诉朋友诬陷他的人是谁,朋友说你千万别告诉我,我不想知道。我有些诧异,朋友解释说,知道了又怎么样?有些事不需要知道,有些事需要忘记。
我很赞赏朋友的豁达。人生不如意常十八九,要让自己快乐,就必须给自己减压,减压的好方法就是学会忘记,人生需要能拿得起,有时候放得下更重要。佛经里有个小故事,说小和尚和老和尚一起去化缘,小和尚毕恭毕敬,什么事都看着师父,走到河边,一个女子要过河,老和尚背起女子过了河,女子道谢后离开了,小和尚心里一直想着,师父怎么可以背那个女子过河呢?但他又不敢问,一直走了20里,他实在憋不住了,就问师父,我们是出家人,你怎么能背那女子过河呢?师父淡淡地说,我把她背过河就放下了,可你却背了她20里还没放下。
大和尚的话充满禅意,仔细想想,也是人生的道理。人的一生像是一次长途跋涉,不停地行走,沿途会看到各种各样的风景,历经许许多多的坎坷,如果把走过去看过去的都牢记心上,就会给自己增加很多额外的负担,阅历越丰富,压力就越大,还不如一路走来一路忘记,永远保持轻装上阵。过去的已经过去了,时光不可能倒流,除了记取经验教训以外,大可不必耿耿于怀。
乐于忘怀是一种心理平衡,需要坦然真诚面对生活。有些人能够忘记失意时的尴尬和窘迫,却对顺境时的得意津津乐道,岂不知成功和失败一样会留在过去,老是沉湎过去不能释怀,常常说我年轻那会如何如何,拿昨日黄花当眼前美景,让过眼烟云在心头永留,沾沾自喜,自鸣得意,陷自己与虚妄之中,便会不思进取,裹足不前。英雄不提当年勇是有道理的。而反复咀嚼过去的痛苦,永远一脸的苦大仇深就更不足取了。印度诗人泰戈尔说过“如果你为失去太阳而哭泣,你也将失去星星。”为鸡毛蒜皮斤斤计较,为陈芝麻烂谷子耿耿于怀,只怕心灵之船不堪重负,记忆之舟承载不下,会让痛苦的过去牵制住未来。一句老话说得好:生气是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。老是念念不忘别人的坏处,实际上深受其害的是自己,既往不咎的人,才是快乐轻松的人。
忘记需要选择,有些人有些事在你的一生中是无法忘怀的,也不该忘怀。阿拉伯著名作家阿里,有一次和吉伯、马沙两位朋友一起旅行。三人行经一处山谷时,马沙失足滑落。幸而吉伯拼命拉他,才将他救起。马沙于是在附近的大石头上刻下了:“某年某月某日,吉伯救了马沙一命。”三人继续走了几天,来到一处河边,吉伯跟马沙为一件小事吵起来,吉伯一气之下打了马沙一耳光。马沙跑到沙滩上写下:“某年某月某日,吉伯打了马沙一耳光。”当他们旅游回来后,阿里好奇地问马沙为什么要把吉伯救他的事刻在石上,将吉伯打他的事写在沙上?马沙回答:“我永远都感激吉伯救我,我会记住的。至于他打我的事,我只随着沙滩上字迹的消失,而忘得一干二净”。这个故事告诉我们,牢记别人对你的帮助,忘记别人对你的不好,这才是做人的本分。
许多人喜欢这样一首白话诗:春有百花秋有月,夏有凉风冬有雪。若无闲事挂心头,便是人间好时节。记住某些事某些人,忘记某些事某些人,记住该记住的,忘记该忘记的,洒脱人生,心无挂碍,你便会觉得生活是如此美好。
Sunday, October 12, 2008
A famosa,malacca trip...
01。10。2008
早上8时许,8辆车,9个家庭,39人,
一起出发到马六甲的A Famosa去。
first show...
elephant show...
my cousin...
while waiting de others come to find us...
my cousins n i
After the elephant show,v walk around n see those animal...
rabbit...
Tick Feng n Yong Ling^^
my cute cute cousins...
tick feng,de baby tat i love de most...
my sis n i ...
while waiting for de cowboy show...
the most excited show...
While v r line up for almost one hour,v took these photo...
my sis n i r in the bus...going to let those animal see us...haha^^
tigers...
bear...
After tat,v go to de pulau tat hav many monkeys de...
After tat,v go back to our bungalow...
took this photo in our room...
After finish our dinner,v r going to de cowboy town...
The shows was excited...after de show is 10 o'clock,
i accompany my cousin to play something funny there...
v r very excited until v want to play de second time...
but becaz v need to go out for supper so v all dim played de second time...
The other day....02.10.2008
the bungalow...
v went to water park after v finish our breakfast...
After tat,
v go to makhota hotel,malacca.after tat,v go to walk around de real a famosa ...
Dataran Pahlawan,the place where i running wif those children...another group photo...
Melaka Stamp Museum
my sis n i again...
tick yao n i ,the child tat i sayang the most...
the cutest child,tick feng n i...
my pang pang n his father b'day,celebrate in de nyonya restoran...
yong ming n i...
Jonker Walk...
the wine tat wearing clothes...
my smart smart uncle...haha^^
my姨丈playing双节棍...haha,he is quite geng..
The Last Day ,03.10.2008
After tat,v go to eat the famous cendol,there r may people...
luckily v found some place to sit...the cendol is very nice...
Before lunch,v go to a famosa again...
v took some photo there...
thx my dad,he helps us to take a lots of photo there...
n these too...
somebody taking photo there too...hehe^^
After tat,v all go to eat lunch...鸡饭粒...
while waiting,see wat my cutest cousin do...
acting emo...
n his brother too...
After finish our lunch...v all go home...
v reached home at 6 something,n v go out to eat dinner togather..
Thx my 舅母,she planned the whole trip...
she incharge everything...this is a wonderful trip!!!